Are you so busy parenting that your spouse is getting the "leftovers" in your relationship. Think about what you do with your time and where you put your emphasis most of the time. Work, Kids, Dinner, Homework, Activities... what do you and your spouse do for yourselves? You need to take the time to support the foundation of your family which, for your kids, is the relationship between you and your spouse. If you want your son or daughter to have a great childhood, what they need and WANT more than model airplanes and tea party birthdays is to have parents who they know they can count on to stay together and stay sound. They want you to do everything you can to avoid a custody battle in their future. Your marriage is the bedrock of their life as they know it and you are the most important folks in their lives. Figure it out for your children's sakes because they deserve the best you can give them, starting with your best marriage. Stop the child custody case before it ever begins by caring for each other daily.