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How to Tell Your Kids You’re Getting a Divorce

Keep it about the kids– NEVER discuss adult issues with your children. No matter what is going on between Mom and Dad, they only need to know about the issues that will impact them. This includes where they’re going to live, and how often they’re going to see you. Also, it is important to be honest. If you don’t know the answers to some of their questions you need to tell them that you don’t …

Is It Worth It To Find Fault In A Divorce?

Where would the tabloids (and media in general) be without cheating spouses? Fans rally around the victim and hope that offender gets what’s deserved in divorce court. Yes, the headlines make the cases sound juicy and full of drama. But the courts don’t always see it that way. In a no-fault divorce, the infidelity may not even be a factor. It just comes down to crunching numbers to determine financial awards. In fact if the …

Does It Matter Who Files For Divorce First?

When speaking with new clients I am often asked: “Does it matter who files for divorce first?”- And my response is always: “absolutely not.” This is because in divorce cases the Court treats both parties equally. Thus, neither party gets an upper-hand by simply filling out the paper work first. Actually, depending on your case, it may be to your advantage to let your spouse file the Petition first. This is because the Petitioner usually ends up …

Making New Friends After A Divorce

When a marriage ends, there are often a lot of “I should have…” thoughts and conversations. “I should have seen it coming.” “I should have been more attentive.” And the list goes on. “Should” is a very dangerous word. You can’t separate it from its close cousin – the feeling of regret. “Regret” then brings its partners, “blame” and “fault”. These are friends you don’t need during a divorce. There’s enough regret, blame, and fault …

What to Tell the Judge at my Permanent Protection Order Hearing

Once you have a temporary protection order restrianing the defendant from you, the Court will set a date for you to come back and have a hearing on whether that protection order should be made permanent. At that hearing you need to prove two things for the Court to find that the temporary protection order should be made permanent. Those two things are: An act of violence or domestic violence has occurred, and; That violence …

Character, Credibility & Social Media

Whether or not you prevail on an issue at trial is in part dependent on your character and credibility to the Judge. You’ll likely be dressed appropriately, I will advise you not to roll your eyes or heavy-sigh while listening to your exes’ testimony. You will put on the best show you are capable of for the Court. However, in this day and age, your credibility and character have already been documented—by you—long before trial. …

How to Make Yourself a Divorce Care Package

Divorce is difficult, and it is easy to forget to take care of yourself while trying to navigate your new separation. However, it is important to take care of yourself. Here are several ‘items’ I suggest you have on hand to help take care of yourself during the divorce process: An inspirational quote: for example, the cliché “what does not kill you makes you stronger” often offers my client’s a little emotional relief while weathering the …

How To Make Your Spouse Want A Divorce

The hit comedy HOW TO LOSE A GUY IN 10 DAYS was about a woman who wanted to show her lovesick friend all the mistakes women typically make in relationships. She would choose some unsuspecting guy, do the wrong things on purpose and watch as he ran for the hills. Of course it’s Hollywood. So the beautiful Kate Hudson was always going to wind up with the gorgeous Matthew McConaughey. But it’s a great premise. And so …

16 Ways I Blew My Marriage

16 Ways I Blew My Marriage Dan Pearce While perusing through Pinterest one evening I happened across this pin with a rather comical but sad picture. The caption being, “16 Ways I Blew My Marriage”, by Dan Pearce. In his article he lists things he had done wrong in his marriage that he wished he could “do-over”. The reason I want to share this article is because I think many people wish for “do-overs” too …

Healthy Dating After Infidelity

When a marriage ends because of infidelity, it’s a good idea to take some time alone once the dust settles. Don’t go joining a convent or become a monk. Hang out with friends and join new social circles. But you may want to lay off from the dating until you’ve healed from the nightmare. After time has passed and clarity has been reached, you may feel (or perhaps your friends have been vocal in their …


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