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Is It Worth It To Find Fault In A Divorce?

Where would the tabloids (and media in general) be without cheating spouses? Fans rally around the victim and hope that offender gets what’s deserved in divorce court. Yes, the headlines make the cases sound juicy and full of drama. But the courts don’t always see it that way. In a no-fault divorce, the infidelity may not even be a factor. It just comes down to crunching numbers to determine financial awards. In fact if the …

Colorado Legislature Currently Considering New Maintenance Guidelines for January 2014

Unlike child support, Colorado currently has no guidelines for maintenance where the annual gross combined income of the parties is over $75,000.00. This means if your family earns more than the $75,000.00 cap, then it is left to the discretion of the Judge as to what the maintenance award will be. However, due HB-13-1058, this may not be the case for much longer. Instead of the award being up to the Judge, HB-13-1058 provides a …

Does It Matter Who Files For Divorce First?

When speaking with new clients I am often asked: “Does it matter who files for divorce first?”- And my response is always: “absolutely not.” This is because in divorce cases the Court treats both parties equally. Thus, neither party gets an upper-hand by simply filling out the paper work first. Actually, depending on your case, it may be to your advantage to let your spouse file the Petition first. This is because the Petitioner usually ends up …

Making New Friends After A Divorce

When a marriage ends, there are often a lot of “I should have…” thoughts and conversations. “I should have seen it coming.” “I should have been more attentive.” And the list goes on. “Should” is a very dangerous word. You can’t separate it from its close cousin – the feeling of regret. “Regret” then brings its partners, “blame” and “fault”. These are friends you don’t need during a divorce. There’s enough regret, blame, and fault …

Men Don’t Always Leave After Their Wives’ Affairs

“If my wife ever cheated, I’d leave.” If you were to ask the hypothetical question to men, this may very well be their response. But what if you asked guys that had actually been in that position? Would it surprise you to know that most men didn’t run to their nearest divorce attorney? Well they didn’t. In fact in a poll of 1,500 men who had been cheated on, more than 71 percent of them …

What to Tell the Judge at my Permanent Protection Order Hearing

Once you have a temporary protection order restrianing the defendant from you, the Court will set a date for you to come back and have a hearing on whether that protection order should be made permanent. At that hearing you need to prove two things for the Court to find that the temporary protection order should be made permanent. Those two things are: An act of violence or domestic violence has occurred, and; That violence …

Character, Credibility & Social Media

Whether or not you prevail on an issue at trial is in part dependent on your character and credibility to the Judge. You’ll likely be dressed appropriately, I will advise you not to roll your eyes or heavy-sigh while listening to your exes’ testimony. You will put on the best show you are capable of for the Court. However, in this day and age, your credibility and character have already been documented—by you—long before trial. …

Longer Waiting Period for Divorce in North Carolina

Originally posted by John Clark/revised by Stephanie Fling Let’s be clear…making divorce more difficult does not make marriages happier. I’ve never had a client ask to have to wait longer for a divorce. But it seems North Carolina believes it is best to make a stressful situation last as long as possible. A bill circulating in the North Carolina Senate would force married couples to wait for two years before filing for divorce, according to a report this week …

Kim Kardashian Finally Gets Her Divorce

The lavish August 2011wedding and marriage of reality show star Kim Kardashian and NBA Brooklyn Nets power forward Kris Humphries is finally over. Kim decided to call it quits after the couple had been married only 72 days. Kris wanted out stating that Kim faked the marriage for the sake of her reality show “Keeping up with the Kardashians”. Humphries, 28, failed to appear at a mandatory hearing on April 12 to work out the …

How to Make Yourself a Divorce Care Package

Divorce is difficult, and it is easy to forget to take care of yourself while trying to navigate your new separation. However, it is important to take care of yourself. Here are several ‘items’ I suggest you have on hand to help take care of yourself during the divorce process: An inspirational quote: for example, the cliché “what does not kill you makes you stronger” often offers my client’s a little emotional relief while weathering the …


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